There is a certainty in life, and it's name is 'loss'. Some will lose jobs, others belongings,there is loss of relationships,loss of respect,loss of trust, we lose friends and loved ones and we all will certainly lose our lives one day.
Loss is as the old adage says 'a bitter pill to swallow' . It's one of those things that no matter how,or if you have prepared for it,it affects you and often hits hard. The way we deal with loss is personal. It is unlikely that any two people will react to the same loss in the same way. Some internalize loss, some deal with it dramatically and some lose themselves in the process. Like with all experiences Islam outlines the perfect code in dealing with loss. The basis of this code being patience and the promise of a great reward for bearing a loss in this manner. It is here where we realize that even when Allah takes from us He gives. Patience is from Him. Understanding is from Him. Acceptance is from Him. He takes what is His and still gives us the means to cope, and the incentive to persevere.
The Messenger of Allah (saw) said, “Allah (swt) says: O son of Adam! If you remained patient restraining yourself and expecting my reward at the initial shock, I will not be happy without rewarding you with Jannah.” (From Abee Umaamah in Ibn Maajah)
“Those who practice sabr (patience) will be rewarded their recompense without measure.” (Az-Zumar 39:10)
I don't think there is an easy way to lose, but there is a successful way. That may not make the most sense but if you really think about it,loss inspires some to great heights. It can drive us to be better,to be stronger and if we are gracious when faced with a loss there is much to gain in both worlds. In sha Allah !
May Allah grant us all ease! Aameen
Until you read again
Ma'assalaam
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