I had mentioned giving birth made me discover some things about myself ,some that I'm not particularly proud off.chalk it up to the baby blues or hormones,I have previously never known myself to be that angry ,irratable or moody.
I guess you are allowed to be a bit under the weather emotionally,considering the enormous change your body has been through.but once the weather seems to be constantly "stormy" u know something's amiss.when other peoples concern and advice grates on your nerves u realize the devil takes his chances .he makes a person see things in a light that may have been unintended or non existent.and this doesn't just apply to woman who have given birth.how often is it that as quickly as the storm within rages,it subsides. So a pertinent question to ask when provoked is" Can u count to 10 and walk away?" it may deprive u of your opportunity to vent but it would give u something far greater.thats strength!
We say and do things in anger that we regret.so empower yourself with positive thoughts and zikr (rememberance of Allah).
u will resist the urge to punch someone in the face or avoid the urge entirely.
Until u read again
Ma'assalam
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May اللَّهُ guide n always keep us patient especially wit our lil 1s n @ tyms wen we r angry let us always remember hw merciful اللَّهُ is.
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